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Self-Confidence if NOT Self-Worth with Jamie Kern Lima

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Hey there Purpose Chasers! Today, we’re diving deep into a conversation that’s incredibly important for every high achiever out there: the distinction between self-confidence and self-worth. We’ve all met those go-getters who seem to ooze confidence from every pore (and maybe we’ve been that person, too…), but as we’ll discover with our special guest Jamie Kern Lima, confidence doesn’t always translate to feeling worthy on the inside.

Now, if you haven’t heard of Jamie, you’re in for a treat. She’s not your average entrepreneur. We’re talking about the mastermind behind IT Cosmetics, the trailblazer who became L’Oreal’s first female CEO, and now, you can also find her on Forbes’ Richest Self-Made Women List. And now Jamie’s latest book, “Worthy,” hits shelves this week, and it’s a game-changer.

In our chat, Jamie’s pulling back the curtain on why self-confidence isn’t the whole story. We’re getting real about how self-worth shapes every aspect of our lives, from the decisions we make to the relationships we keep. 

So, whether you’re on top of the world or feeling a bit lost, this episode is for you. Jamie’s got some eye-opening insights about why embracing your worthiness is the key to unlocking a life filled with love, success, and genuine wealth and fulfillment.


Show Notes:

[2:51] – I am worthy of love just as I am.

[6:00] – In life, we don’t get what we want, we get what we think we are worthy of. Our self-worth is our ceiling.

[9:05] – Sometimes we make decisions based on our self-worth without even knowing it.

[13:07] – Self-confidence is based on the external. It fluctuates. It is how we assess our own skills and abilities.

[15:03] – It is important to be ambitious and have self-confidence, but you won’t enjoy any of this journey without self-worth.

[18:01] – Low self-worth shows up in three primary ways in your life.

[23:20] – Realizing a self-worth problem is a catalyst.

[27:02] – Valuing and building your self-worth is actually breaking generational cycles.

[29:30] – Ambition linked to authenticity is beautiful. But ambition linked to achievement will lead to burnout.

[32:31] – Even your relationships will be stronger when you know you are worthy.

[35:32] – We cannot exceed our level of self-worth.

[37:35] – We will continue to attract the amount of love from others that matches the love we have for ourselves.

[40:26] – Self-worth is the one thing that will transform your life.

[43:21] – Jamie is donating 100% of the proceeds of her book Worthy.

[47:18] – When we don’t believe we are worthy, we will self-sabotage.


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